Day 33/90 – Learn how you can turn a stressful situation into a great opportunity

Yeah, I am not ready to let go of the topics from Psycho-Cybernetics yet. If you haven’t read the book: EMAIL ME at ron@elitetrafficcommunity.com and I will send you a free copy. This book should be mandatory in school… get it!

I am still on stress management as a topic. Yesterday we talked about how you can practice not reacting immediately and with stress. Today I want you to start practicing stressful situations ahead of time and by that, relieving some of the pressure from it.

An example from the video today is stressful conversations with your boss(assuming you are not an internet marketer and you actually work from someone else). Picture yourself preparing to ask your boss for a promotion or a raise. You may be worried that your boss will turn you down, maybe worried he will ask you some tough questions… What if he brings up that mistake you made with the orders last quarter? What if someone has complained on your performance without you knowing it, and now he will bring it up to prevent having to give you a raise? –> Here’s what you do:

Sit down and spend some time picturing how the conversation may go. What is the most likely turn of events. Word by word, hear the conversation in your mind. When you feel like you are done – start over but make the conversation take a slightly different turn. Then do it again. And again… until you are sure you have gone through all the possible outcomes. Prepare for the arguments and questions your boss may ask you. See yourself giving the proper answers.

By doing this you remove the stress from the situation. You can go into the meeting knowing that no matter what your boss will throw at you – you have an answer and you will not be nervous about stumbling along. You GOT THIS!

Sounds good? Try it the next time you are dreading something… see how much better it makes you feel.

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For those of you who missed it last night: I am looking for three brand new internet marketers that I want to help succeed in this business. I want to do this for free, no strings attached. You do not have to be a member of Big Idea Mastermind or even Empower Network. I will help you regardless. Please just email me at ron@elitetrafficcommunity.com if you are interested(PS. I can only take three people at once).

If you want to read more, check out my blog post from yesterday HERE. 

Day 12/90 – 90 Day Opportunity – Self-Reliance

Wait, you jumped from Day 8 to Day 12? You cheated on your challenge!!?

Nope, I didn’t. But my videos in between were posted on my other Empower Network blog.

Watch them HERE

 

Day 12/90 –

Got stuck in traffic this morning and started seeing how the chain effects of that delay could impact my day and all that I needed to do. The result? You’re getting a “live-from-traffic” video today.

Anyways, topic of today is Self-Reliance. We have two parts of self-reliance, one is self-deprecation and the other is self-conceit.

With self-deprecation you believe in preconceived notions about what you may or may not be good at, putting limits to your life and ideas. You would be literally strangling your dreams.

Self-conceit on the other hand makes you believe that you don’t need anyone, you become boastful and arrogant.

Both of these two can be very damaging for your chances of becoming successful. Work on it, be aware and control them so that you can open up a way of getting to where you want to be.

Day 8/90 – 90 Day Opportunity – Don’t Be a Shell of Yourself

Went on a run this morning and it was the longest run I’ve done for at least the last 2 years! I used to be in a bad spot.. At some point I even smoked a pack of cigarettes per day. Since I started working on my mindset and my personal growth, things have changed.

Life feels brighter and happier for each day!

Topic of today relates to this and how I want you to NOT be a shell of yourself(like that cool sculpture we found at the Hirshorn Sculpture Garden). We were just walking by and spotted it, felt like it would be a good image to put up for the topic of the day(plus I was dying from my run and needed a break!)

Work on yourself, expand yourself and make sure you utilize all you can of your abilities.

It feels AWESOME.

Have a great Sunday evening!

Ron
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Day 7/90 – 90 Day Opportunity – Find those with similar goals, hang out, be successful!

Wow, I can’t believe it is day 7 already… Kinda scary how fast time passes sometimes.

I have had 7 days of making one video per day. It’s been good but also very challenging at times. Some days I know exactly what I want to tell you guys. Other days I have to dig deep to think of what you would find interesting or valuable. PLEASE if you have a preference on what direction you want me to take in these videos, topics etc, let me know.

I have also had 7 days of my new workout regime. I have a set of exercises I have to do each single day.. Same things, every day.. but some exercises I increase reps/sets per day, others I increase per week.. I already feel stuff happening so we’ll see how I will feel in 90 days! woooh

Anyways, I’m losing track here.. Topic of today is one that fascinates me… How your environment can affect your ability to reach your goals. How you should surround yourself with likeminded people who aim for the same accomplishments as yourself, and how by doing this you can be so much more successful! Get together, work together for the common goal and see how much smoother it gets.

I have to say that the world wide web has made this world so much smaller for me, and helped me connect with other likeminded people from all over the place! Through my blog, twitter, Instagram, Facebook etc.. It makes it easier to connect and grow.

So, that’s all for today folks!

Ron

Day 6/90 – BIM Opportunity – The Four Pillars of Integrity

Happy Friday, everyone!

I hope you have had an amazing week! I know I did..

This is my first Friday during the 90 Day Video Opportunity, and to keep your attention I decided to switch out the tree/park background and went somewhere different.

Hopefully you have seen my last few videos where I give some hands on suggestions on how to handle every day challenges. Today’s topic relates to all of my previous videos. How, you say? Well, without integrity none of the other techniques will last for long. You need to build your integrity with some pretty solid pillars to be able to keep this up. Honestly, this is my bad, but this video should  probably have been number 1, and not number 6.. oh well, there you go.. That’s part of the process of learning I guess.

Anyways, I am getting late for a BBQ with my friends now so I gotta duck out. I hope you enjoy my video and that you have a fantastic nice and relaxing Friday night.

Talk to you tomorrow!

Ron

PS. Would love if you look me up these other spots as well:

www.twitter.com/Ron_The_Jett
www.instagram.com/ronmaurice
www.facebook.com/journeysofgrowth

Day 5/90 – 90 Day Opportunity – Anger, the disease we all carry the cure for

Wow, day five and my muscles are sore. Only 85 more days to go on this!

Topic of today is how to prevent anger from controlling your thoughts and your every day life. How important it is to not let yourself carry your frustrations with you through your day. In the end, you are the one who get hurt the most from carrying anger around.

Do you think that guy in traffic that cut you off in the morning rush hour really remembers your encounter all day? No, let it go and move on. Leave space in your mind for growth and positivity. Don’t let anger bury your mind. Don’t let your anger become your disease.

Day 17/30: 30/30/30 Challenge – Dropping by to share this extremely motivating video!

Happy Saturday, everyone! 🙂

Hope your weekend is fantastic. Hope your challenge is going great!

Wanted to quickly drop by to share this extremely motivating video I came across today. This guy, a veteran barely able to walk, went from obese and weak to super fit and running around. Very impressive.

Day 16/30: Words of Wisdom on a Friday Night

Hi friends,

I just wanted to share some words of wisdom from one of my mentors on this Friday night. Mentor David Sharpe out jet skiing. He worked hard, he struggled but he eventually came to a place in life where he managed to get going on making his dreams come true.

Listen to what he has to say and…

..ENJOY YOUR WEEKEND!

Day 15/30: 30/30/30 Challenge – rerun “DECISION: THE CATALYST FOR SUCCESS”

Dear Challenge-takers,

Today marks your half-way-there point in the 30/30/30 challenge. If you made it to day 15 I want to congratulate you with a job well done so far. I am sure you are starting to sense big changes coming. Remember, change your mind – change your life!

Your mind has SO MUCH to do with how the rest of your life works out for you.

There is NO WAY focusing on negative stuff will get you anywhere but somewhere with more negativity. It’s just how it works. I know it is hard, heck – I am still struggling some days myself with controlling my mind. It is always going to be a work in progress and it is always going to be tough days.

People around you may say you are silly for thinking you can “live in an imaginary world” and they may say “real life is not like that”. What are those? Typical symptoms of someone in need of some personal development.

Mental/personal development works and it is crucial for happy survival. I am living proof of this!

Anyways, not sure what the 30/30/30 challenge is you can see my video about it HERE. 

It is not too late to start today. You can jump on and start at day 1 whenever works for you. If there is one day you miss, you just start back up with day 1 the next day. Keep working! Don’t give up! We don’t like quitters!

Below is a rerun of an older blog post of mine. This is related to a chapter of the book “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill(if you are on my email newsletter list you have received a pdf file with this entire book as a gift already). Today’s chapter is number 9 about Decisions.

Enjoy!

Let me hear your thoughts!

So I want to talk to you about DECISIONS and why it is so crucial for your success.

This blog post relates to chapter 9 from Napoleon Hill’s “Think and Grow Rich”. 

I just have to say it again: this book is one of the absolute best books I have ever accepted into my life!

I try to keep my posts short and I REALLY hope you actually went and got the book yourself by now. It will be absolutely worth it, and it is not an expensive purchase. Maybe you can even find it at the library for free(or email me/comment and I can send it to you via a pdf file)!

Hopefully you have been following along in my previous posts here and regardless if you have gotten “ALL IN” with the Big Idea Mastermind or not, you should definitely be able to start seeing the pieces of the puzzle coming together for you. I don’t care if you are an internet marketer or not.. I want to help you with your mindset regardless. If you are NOT noticing anything changing for you yet then you should go back to my first post about DESIRE and start over. Do the 6 steps I described. This can change your life!!

Procrastination – the opposite of DECISION.

In this chapter Napoleon Hill says millionaires make their decisions quickly and change their minds very rarely.

This is because they must be firm and direct in their goals,

 Those who failed to become rich often change their minds a lot and take forever to make a decision.  Is this YOU??

A lot of procrastinators say they need to have all the information ready before they can make a decision.

This will inevitably make you fail because by the time you make a decision someone else has probably beaten you to it.

If you think something’s a good idea you should definitely act on it!! 

Trust your gut reaction!

If you have a goal and your attempt to achieve it fails the first time around, check for what information you may have been missing before you decide to give up and change your goals altogether.

 It takes courage to make a decision and to stay with it

You will always have doubters so you and your mastermind group/partners must stay on the same page.

 Most people are unsatisfied with a certain part of their life and –

Misery Loves Company”! Unfortunately a lot of people will try to bring you down before they try to lift you up. This is why you should surround yourself with those who have the same goals as You!!!

THAT WOULD BE ME! 🙂

In this chapter in the book they use of the declaration of independence as an example…

Napoleon Hill also talks about Henry Ford, we all know how well he did in the car business!  Just look around. Look at the success stories around  you both current and past ones. Tap into the knowledge that those stories left behind. You will see that the things mentioned in these posts and in this book will all be present at the real success stories.

You can definitely read this part on your own time.. Just know if you ever do change your decision it should be because of those who are in your Mastermind Group(your group of trusted people who supports your goals), if not your decision may not be sound.

And you NEED someone to bounce ideas off of.

What decisions have you made today?

Have you made a decision to make more money?

 Turn your greatest desire to its monetary equivalent!!!

 If you would like to work closely with me and be part of my Mastermind group, click THIS LINK and see how to go about it. 

PS. I do NOT accept negativity in my Mastermind group. You must be willing to cooperate, to develop your own mindset, to assist others as well as accepting assistance yourself. We can do this together! Positive, positive, positive!

As always I would LOVE to hear from you if you have any thoughts, comments or questions. Email me directly at ronald.majette(at)gmail(dot)com.

Best,

Ron

Miami Monday, NYC Tuesday – a great few days!

I have had the most incredible last 6 days. Went to Miami early Friday morning… Stayed until Monday night.. Then I went to NYC Tuesday and have had such a nice experience.

I live in Washington, DC but still I have only been to NYC once.. and it was for max 3 hours on a field trip. I have always wanted to go but didn’t have the funds to do so and also just didn’t seem to figure out a way to go about it. My mindset then and now is like night and day. I wish I had realized all this stuff sooner.

It all comes down to just taking action. Stop waiting for an event or for something special to happen for you to start living. Trust me, if you don’t do something about it yourself it will most likely not happen. Just get on it! Take some action. Move forward. Take steps towards it. Doesn’t matter if the steps are tiny in the beginning. Do whatever you can. Get out of the rut. Just DO SOMETHING and see how much easier it gets after a while.

I went touring in Manhattan with my lady today. We did the Top of The Rock(roof of Rockefeller Center), posed at Times Square, saw the Empire State Building, Central Park and all that good stuff. We even went to see the famous Carlo’s Bake Shop in Hoboken(from the TV-show Cake Boss). Yummy stuff.

I am so appreciative of the turn my life has taken. Went from dark to sunny in a heartbeat.. I may seem all happy go go to you now, but it wasn’t always like this!

For those of you doing my 30/30/30 challenge – I expect that you will start seeing this in your own life soon if you are able to keep up and take the proper steps.

Always want to hear from you!

Ron

 

NYC hangout